Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Another Day...

                Most of you have a general idea of what I do here in Zambia- teach at a Bible college, training students and their wives for ministry in the church.  If you keep up with my blogs or emails you know some other things like my regular dealings with ants, other animal visitors, and whatever other little snippets I’ve written about.  If you keep up with my Facebook posts you know when I’m sick or see some funny cross-cultural experience of my day.  You see some cute pictures of kids or animals or bugs.  But I want to tell you more about the nitty-gritty details of my day to day life here in Zambia.

                My morning starts at 6AM when my phone alarm goes off.  The sun has been up for a half hour and the roosters have been crowing for 2 hours.  Dusty, my cat, is snuggled next to me in bed. She refuses to get up and I often feel the exact same way.  (Not a morning person!) I give her a nudge, she purrs and rolls over. Envying her laziness, I stumble out of bed and hope for electricity and water to take a shower, hope there is hot water, hope there is water pressure… hopefully all these things last long enough for me to get out of the shower clean.  Get dressed into my below-the-knee skirt. Eat breakfast, make coffee, drink coffee, read Bible.  Listen to the sounds floating across campus of the men praying in the dormitory.  Take a deep breath in the moment of peace and ask the Lord for grace, wisdom and energy for my day.

                 7AM and someone is inevitably knocking at my door handing in a paper, asking to use my stapler, or the occasional emergency need for money to travel to a hospital or funeral…  Between 7 and 7:30 I hope the power is on so I can use the photo copier to make copies for my classes, the copier will inevitably jam at least 3 times depending on how much moisture is in the air and how temperamental it wants to be.

                Around this time students begin descending on the campus and I’m greeted with chipper, bright “Good morning, madam. How are you?” I greet every person within 10-15 feet of me, or whoever makes eye contact… if there is anything you can do in the African culture to create a relationship it is to simply and genuinely say “Hi, how are you?”  It is even better if I can fumble through some Tonga “Mwabuka Buti?” or for the few Bemba students “Muli Bwanji?”  My student’s cheerful smiles so early in the morning infuse life and joy into my spirit.  The clear blue sky and African sun sink into my bones and wake up my body.

                7:20 and its almost time for devotions.  Paul, the student time keeper, rings the new siren.  The siren was graciously donated by a former student who is now serving as a pastor. It is always a blessing when local churches support the Bible College out of their poverty.  He even came with his own electrician to install the siren. It's purpose is to signal when classes are starting and ending, but I’m certain one of these days it is going to summon the fire brigade. 

                7:30. Time for devotions.   A small student cohort has already gathered and started singing a worship chorus in English or Tonga which echoes across campus calling us all to worship. We gather in the chapel.  Dusty has emerged from her slumber and she roams among the students saying her own morning ‘hello’.  One of the second or third year students manages to preach an entire three point sermon in 10 minutes, followed by Rev. Habbaba the Dean of Students giving the announcements for the day.  “So and so is sick, so and so’s child has gone to the clinic. We will have prayer meeting on Thursday.  So and so has traveled to a funeral.  Please come to devotions on time…” Followed by prayer.  Followed by, “We may greet each other.”  Every morning of every day of the week I shake hands and greet the same 32 people.  Each one greets me a different way.  Each one trying to elicit a smile or laugh from their ‘madam’.  Each one is successful in starting my day knowing I am loved. 

                7:45 go to my apartment to wash the fellowship off my hands, grab my teaching materials, lock my apartment, go to the first year’s classroom.  Ask Luka to pray for the class. In his prayer he includes kind and genuine words for the lecturer that she would “teach with wisdom from above, and be protected in body and spirit.” The lesson proceeds.  This period I am teaching English where we have been learning how to write a research paper.  For the 176th time I explain what a bibliography is, the purpose of writing citations, how to write a proper introduction… Dusty hops through the window happily bringing a half-dead lizard to my feet and distracting the whole class. 8:20 and the siren warns that class is almost over. (Or that a tornado is coming… I’m still not sure) More questions are raised and I fumble through defining words like “centralization” and “deified.” 

                8:30 Escape to my apartment where I have a ten minute break which is interrupted by more knocking at my door with “can I have…” and “can you help me…” questions.  8:40, time to teach the wives English where we navigate through understanding each other. This class is full of laughter. It is especially funny when Mrs. Hamilila chooses the verb ‘to swim’ in her sentence and I look at her shocked and ask her “where are you swimming around here!?”  9:07 and a 4 foot Green Mamba (that’s a snake, not a dance) has been found on campus and all the men are gathered throwing bricks and stones and jumping and yelling (that’s the part that looks like a dance).  Everyone is excited to see the snake and Mr. Lweendo brings it hanging limply on a stick into our class room, ladies shriek and run to corners giggling and spurting out Tonga phrases of excitement.  Only Mrs. Maulu is brave enough to touch it.   The dead snake leaves and we settle back to our lesson, however the babies are getting unsettled and hungry. Breasts are pulled out for nursing.  Baby Melody is crawling around the room pulling everyone’s notebooks off their laps and desks.  Junior plays peek-a-boo with me from under the table, his little mischievous grin melts my heart.  Baby ‘Love’ looks at my white face in terror.  Siren rings.

                10:30 and another 10 minute break.  More knocks at my door with “can I have…” and “can you help me…” 10:40 siren blares and I head to the second and third year students class room to teach Discipleship.  Our discussion rabbit trails to intense debates about predestination or the difference between salvation and sanctification. (The students are certain they can solve these problems in our 50 minutes of class) I am once again astounded at my student’s memorization of scripture and apt application of it to our discussion.  They navigate the Bible in a way that puts my use of it to shame, indicating the many hours they spend indulging their hearts and minds in the wee- hours of the night reading.  The siren rings and I do my best to pull my little rampant rabbit brains back onto the main path for our last few minutes of class.

                11:30 ten more minutes to breathe.  Quick run to the bathroom, wash the chalk off my hands, answer the “can I have…” and “can you help me…”s.  Back to the first year class room for New Testament survey where I am teaching a course that I have never taken myself.  I pass along information which I have only learned the night before in my research and attempt to answer questions as we are all discovering together the fascinating history of the New Testament era.  This is the hardest time of the day to teach.  The temperature has jumped about 20 degrees since the morning began and we are all hot and tired from four hours of class.  The students are drifting to sleep and their minds are wandering to their lunches. Most of them don’t have enough food to eat a breakfast meal.  I sympathize with their exhaustion and hunger and let the class end early.  Another morning of teaching complete.

                12:30 and I finally get a break.  I make up some simple meal for lunch and sit down to eat.  As I sit down I watch Obby, one of the single students, walk slowly by my apartment carrying his Bible.  He is headed to “The mountain” to spend the lunch hour praying.  He is one of several of the single students who do this.  It is partially a forced fast due to minimal food, though I also know his heart is one passionate for prayer.  I eat my lunch, evermore thankful for food, in front of my computer.  Battling the slow internet, I check Facebook to have my 15 minute connection with a world that is becoming more and more distant.  Another friend has had a baby, someone else is engaged.  I read about things happening in the political world of a land called "America", check up on someone who has been sick, try to write little notes to reconnect with friends.  Then I turn to my email where I’ve received at least one or two notes from my mom. She writes to me about the happenings of her day, what is happening in the extended family, or what new trouble or trick our dog Rosie has learned… mostly she writes me words of encouragement and lends a supporting ear to my venting.  She prays for me all day and all night long. I am so thankful for her walking each step of every day of this journey with me.  I give myself a moment to feel the heartache of missing my family and closest friends, but only a moment because if I linger too long I know I’ll get lost in a sea of emotions.  Respond to her email with a quick note of reassurance that I’m alive, tell her the excitement about the snake in the morning, and then move on to any other emails that call for my attention. 

                1:30 and I decide I better clean up the apartment a bit.  Mrs. Munsanje and Mrs. Tilimboyi will be here shortly to do their bi-weekly cleaning job, and I better have the place tidied before they come.  Electronics, money, extra clothing, and food all get tucked away.  1:45 and they’re knocking on my door 15 minutes early, ready to start cleaning.  Melody is Mrs. Munsanje’s 22 month old baby and I have been blessed to watch her grow for 15 of those months.  I take her from her mom and get to work at preparing some instant oatmeal, mixed with some peanut butter for protein.  Though a doctor has not diagnosed her, we suspect Melody has cerebral palsy.  One of the problems this presents is her lack of ability to feed herself.  I expect someday she’ll be able to, but for now she manages to get more food on her body than in her mouth.  So I spoon feed her the oatmeal while she claps and shakes her head and squawks out Melodyisms that I have learned are all expressing sheer delight. 

                The ladies have eyed my browning banana’s and make a request that we bake some banana cake to share at the end of their work period.  I eagerly agree since it will give me someone to share the banana muffins that I had already wanted make, and set to work at measuring sugar, flour, melting butter on the stove, and mixing the batter with my hand-beater. 

                I hear the ladies giggling in the other room and they call “Laureen! Laureen!!” I go in to see them looking at a small advertisement on their bottle of wood polish.  There is a photo of a white lady in a wedding dress and they are pointing at the picture of my friend Melissa on her wedding day and saying, “It’s the same person!” I burst out laughing with them.  A knock on my door draws me away from the excitement.

                Mr. and Mrs. Kabayame are asking to meet with me in my office.  They follow me over and I manage to unlock the door on the third try, and we are all relieved by the cooler air of the enclosed cement box that is my office.  Mr. Kabayame, following the formality of his culture, begins our ‘meeting’ with prayer, and then very politely presents their concerns regarding their daughter Chipo’s school fees for grade 10.  My heart is humbled that this couple, in their 40s who I have grown to respect and admire, feel they have to come to ME with such a level of humility and respect. I yearn to be able to meet all of their needs.  Chipo is one of a small handful of students who has passed her grade 9 exams and is awaiting placement at a boarding school somewhere in the country.  Her faithful and loving parents want to do everything they can to support her education but are incapable of paying the $150-$250 per term school fees.  I reassure them that I have contacted a sponsor and ask them to write a letter expressing their requests and pride for their daughter. 

                Back in my apartment Mrs. Munsanje has removed the muffins from the oven since she could smell they were about to burn.  Melody, who is becoming ever more mobile, is dumping Dusty’s cat food all over the floor and putting pieces of kibble into her mouth.  My bedroom is a mess of beds and boxes and desks since the ladies decided it was a good day for a deep clean and are getting the dust and bugs out of every nook and cranny.  I ‘babboo’ Melody to my back with a Chitenge to get her out of trouble and she is entertained by watching me wash dishes and giggles when I touch the wet sponge to her bare feet that are hanging at my sides.

                I then remember the students who are down the hall practicing computer skills on the 3 laptop and 1 netbook computers that have been donated to the school.  I head down to check up on them and they express their frustrations of this new venture but smile the whole time at the privilege they have to learn.  I encourage Brian, who is already skilled in computers and is ‘supervising’ the learning of his peers.  This is a program I am proud to have initiated, I leave the room with a smile on my face to see it in action.

                On my way to the apartment I pass the ladies who are now carrying my garbage out to the garbage pit to burn.  This is my cue that they are done cleaning and it is time to start cooking.   I put the electric kettle on to heat water for their tea, and begin the process of making eggs the way they like them.  I’ve decided it is essentially a milk-less omelet.   Two eggs each, two pieces of bread, one of the banana muffins, butter, jam, milk and sugar for tea.  They arrive and sit down and eagerly dig into their food.  I think on the days they clean they don’t eat lunch because they know I will feed them.  They express their gratefulness, and we chat about campus happenings with their limited English and my much more limited Tonga.  Mrs. Munsanje writes their work time in their log book and says, “Let’s go baby!”  Melody lifts her arms to momma, momma pulls her onto her back and ties her up into her babboo.  I send them home with some very ripe tomatoes that I know I wont eat in time and my empty recyclables that their children will play with. I grab my broom and sweep up the crumbs from their meal, of which there are many since they are unused to eating with utensils.  Dusty slinks her way into the once again quiet apartment.

                It is around 4:15 and I now have some time to grade a few papers and do lesson planning for class tomorrow.  Thankfully my schedule tomorrow has less hours in the classroom so I only have two classes to plan for.  I do enough planning and grading to ‘get by’ but am drawn outside by the distant sounds of “my” kids playing.  The student compound is full of life this time of day and I walk up to find little bare bums of children running around escaping baths, yells of “Ba Auntie!! Ba Auntie!!” put a huge grin on my face.  Little feet and little legs scamper from every direction and little arms wrap around my legs.  I lift up 2 year old Joanne who grins and giggles as I wrap her into a bear hug, and soon Ji, Joseph, Junior, and Love are all reaching for ‘up’.  More little people emerge from different corners and we begin some silly games.  The older children are eager to practice their English with me, while the younger children become bashful when I ask “how are you?” The older children scold the younger children for getting Auntie dirty, and the younger children carefully wipe the dirt off my skirt.  Bibbi, the campus dog, comes running from some unknown place, prances into the mob of children who scatter with shrieks and giggles.  The sun is setting and I better get home before it is too dark, so I pull myself away from the children who mimic my “bye bye!” with a little wave.  I am half way home before they stop yelling “Bye Auntie!”

                On my walk home I walk past the library which is adjacent to my apartment.  There are several students inside and I can see that they are hard at work.  The time of day, now around 7, indicates that most of them have skipped dinner to get some studying in.  With a sudden idea I go inside my home and set to work at making a big pot of popcorn on the stove.  Thankful that most of it didn’t burn, I march into the library with the hot popcorn and declare “Study break!”  They all look up surprised but someone exclaims, “Praise be to God!”  And they mean it.  7:30 and my pots and bowls are returned, time to wash dishes.  7:55 and Brian is returning the school laptop, with 5 minutes to spare before my 8:00 deadline.  I step outside and call Dusty who comes trotting up to me with a sweet little meow and we head inside.  One more check of email, pajamas on, lights out.

                 A few candles next to my bed are lit so I can read a bit before sleeping.  The peaceful night coming through my window is mixed with sounds of frogs croaking, bugs buzzing, and students “studying” next door in the library.  A baby is crying in the distance and cow bells are ringing as their shepherd boy leads the meandering beasts back home.  Dusty and I settle underneath the mosquito net. The candlelight flickers and sizzles.  I am reading the autobiography of Claudie Peyton, one of the first missionaries in Zambia in the 1930's.  She writes tales of lions and loincloths, her near-death illness, the many orphaned children who became her own. She writes of places and villages that I frequently visit.  Her tales of struggle and hardship are inspiring and I thank the Lord for her faithfulness to bring the Gospel here.  She has laid the foundation for what I did today. 

                Next I turn to my Bible and I’m drawn to the following verse, “Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm.  Let nothing move you.  Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.” 1 Corinthians 15:58

                As I blow out the candles I also breathe out a sigh of relief.  Another day done.  Another day full of interruptions and decisions and tasks that are far beyond my ability.  Another day full of smiles and laughter, desperation and pain.  Another day of life in Zambia.  Another day of JOY.  

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